Wednesday, October 28, 2009

elliot's 7 month video


elliot's 7 month video, originally uploaded by enbi.

it has clearly been way WAY too long since i've updated this ol' blog. can i play the working mom card on this one? life has been sort of nuts with adjusting to being back at work (during one of the craziest busiest times of year) and trying to figure out how to balance being a mom & being a worker bee.

in the meantime, we've been having lots of fun with our sweet bug, and she turned 7 months old today! she's been hitting lots of great milestones lately:

1. she has started eating some solid foods - we started with sweet potatoes, but we've also tried butternut squash, avocado, pears, apples, carrots, green beans, bananas and oatmeal. 

2. she can crawl (yikes!)

3. she has a tooth!

4. she looked at aaron and said "dada" the other night (awww how sweet is that?!?!)

5. she just started pulling herself up in the crib today

our little lady is on the move & SO much fun. but she is much better at showing off all her great skills than i am...so, enjoy this sweet video we took on her 7-month-birthday eve.

*note* please ignore goofball mama in the background - i was trying to coax her into making my favorite smiley-snorty face, but she apparently wasn't in the mood to appease mama.

Monday, August 10, 2009

the bug's newest trick


buggy's newest trick, originally uploaded by enbi.

yesterday, as we were getting ready to head to our PEPS meeting, i noticed that the bug was mimicking me when i stuck out my tongue at her. i had to catch it on video, and it's just too cute not to share.

aaron and i have a feeling it won't be too much longer until we start to hear some word-ish sounds as she continues to copy us. better start paying closer attention to those little eyes and ears!!

Saturday, August 8, 2009

4 month appointment: stay of vaccination



we had our 4 month pediatrician appointment this past wednesday. i had been dreading our second round of shots but, as it turned out, they were actually out of one of the shots we needed, so we were granted a stay of vaccination. we got to enjoy all of the fun of the pediatrician appointment (weight, height, questions, etc) without the tears (SHOTS!!). of course, we have to go back for the shots when the vaccine delivery comes in - but, for now, we are living the good life.

elliot is hitting all of her milestones well within the range of what is normal. she can grasp and chew, she "talks" quite a bit, she responds to sights & sounds, and of course she is very mobile (rolling, scooting, army crawling). she is able to sit up with help, and that is her favorite vantage point - she looooves being able to see & participate in her world. the pediatrician told us that it is now perfectly safe to let her sleep on her tummy, which was a relief because she hardly spends any time on her back now that she can roll. it's nice to know that we can just leave her be at this point, or we would be constantly waking her up to roll her onto her back (only to have her irritatedly roll BACK onto her tummy) and then we would all be tired and cranky.

her stats at this appointment were:

height: 26 inches long (90%)
weight: 14 pounds, 2 ounces (60%)
head: 16.5 inches (50%)

so, once again, elliot is a long, lean little bug. she's very vocal, very active & strong, and very happy. she is a pretty good sleeper, though our sense of a sleep "routine" has been fairly sporadic lately because of all of the development and growth she has been going through. luckily, our pediatrician thinks this is totally fine and totally normal...and she assures us that we aren't behind in sleep "training" - she doesn't think we need to worry about that until closer to 6 months.

bugga's been drooling and chewing like crazy, and that combined with her somewhat sporadic sleeping pattern leads us to believe that she may be starting the teething process. our pediatrician thinks this may also be why she spits up so much. of course, we don't see anything poking through just yet and the teething process can last months & months, so this is likely just the beginning of a long road towards teeth. i just hope she's not tooo uncomfortable. to help soothe her through teething, mama caved and jumped on the sophie bandwagon.



sophie is a little french giraffe with a long history as a beloved teething toy throughout the world (if you believe the marketing which, let's be honest here, i always do. mama is a sucker). i had heard mixed reviews from other moms online, but couldn't help myself when i started to see our buggy chomping down on anything that came within range (including mama's fingers - ouch!). in typical bugga fashion, the first time i handed sophie to her, she acted as though she didn't even see what mama had in her hands, instead staring intently as the doggies wrastled for her amusement (soooo typical). but once the puppyshow was over and she had some time to think about it, the bug realized that she actually LOVES sophie - sophie is soft & chewy, with pink blushing cheeks and a super satisfying "squeak" that makes the doggies very jealous. sophie is a big hit!



today, we are headed to a "first foods" class to begin to plan for introducing her to solids at 6 months. this is another milestone that i am SO excited about. i've already started prepping and practicing for making her first foods - like cloth diapering, baby food making is one of those tasks that i am giddy about. it will be neat to get some more information about how best to begin and such - i can't hardly believe it is already time to start thinking about solids. where has the time gone?

and speaking of milestones - do you see this?



that is my itty bitty baby bug wearing JEANS! yes, JEANS!! how on earth is she big enough for that yet? our long, lean little buggy is mostly fitting into 6-12 month clothes. elliot has been blessed with amazing family and friends who have showered her with a super cute wardrobe. in fact, we have barely had to buy her any clothes at all. between the amazing gifts she been given & loaned hand-me-downs, she's quite the little ladybug fashionista. this snappy ensemble (including OMG first JEANS!) was loaned to her by her amazing auntie m and miss iz, her style icon & bff extraordinaire.



life with our bug seems to have pushed time into warp speed. but, while i often feel awed & a bit sad at how quickly our babybug is growing into a little ladybug, i am also so excited for the fun times to come. i've already got her halloween costume picked out (any guesses?), i'm planning ahead for the christmas stocking i am going to make for her, etc - i've even started to hatch ideas for her first birthday! SO many fun things to plan for - life just gets better & better. it's hard to even remember what life was like before (sleeping in on a saturday? huh?) - and with my sweet little buggy snoozing at my side while i type, i couldn't feel more blessed to have such a beautiful family & such an amazing life.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

4 months (plus one week)

oh hi, cutie pie

*from our 4 month photo shoot*


okay, folks - it has clearly been way too long since i've updated this blog, and thus you are in for a long one. think of it as two months worth of entries squashed into one...and feel free to break it up to read in sections if you must! i do apologize. here are some of the buggy highlights from the past two months:

**note** in reviewing this entry, i've noticed that it is filled with descriptions of all the things our bug "loooooooooooooves" - clearly, we are having so much fun watching our little bug grow. this is SUCH a fun age, each day seems better than the next & our little ladybug is more fun and interactive all the time. maybe you can start to see why i don't seem to find the time to blog - i'm too busy having fun!

1. schedules & such: i've found myself somewhat preoccupied with trying to nail down a solid daytime schedule of naps & such for our little ladybug, so that things don't go completely wacko when i return to work in a month. that's right, folks - this mama is heading back to the office in about four weeks. this will be a big adjustment for our baby bug (and for me!) but we are slowly working on trying to nail things down now to make that transition as smooth as possible. cross your fingers for us!

speaking of trying to nail down a schedule, i started a blog entry a while back about how it seemed i had FINALLY nailed down the schedule and things were smooth sailing. silly mama! i should have known that little miss elliot would be secretly checking in on this blog & let her mama know who is really in charge around here...it seems we have been in the midst of a transitional phase for almost a month now, and that throws any hopes of a predictable sleeping/eating/playing/etc schedule right out the window. and honestly, i just don't think it's possible that she has been going through a growth spurt for an entire month. more likely, i think she's been growing, and mixing in mastering certain skills and generally becoming more aware of her world and how interesting it is - oh, and we've been travelling & generally trying to work in as many fun & exciting things as possible - and all of those factors have lead us down a path of erratic eating, sleeping, etc. i may regret saying this for all the world to see, but it honestly seems that as soon as she hit four months old, things have settled down a bit and we are starting to find our way back to a decent & reliable routine. here's hoping! 

2. travels: our bug has now been to four different states (washington, oregon, idaho and montana). 

we took a trip to prineville, oregon, to visit aaron's parents for father's day weekend. elliot had a wonderful time, spending time with her grandparents, meeting their friends, napping & generally being loved & adored as any sweet little ladybug should. 

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*daddy & bug with nana & grandpa, on our 1st father's day*


then we took a family trip with my parents to anaconda, montana, for the fourth of july - elliot survived her first 9 hour car trip and did SO well. we had a great time with my folks, golfing, hanging out in the hotsprings, seeing the sites and generally have a great time with family...and, of course, more love & adoration for our sweet bug. 

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*with grandad & grammy toto in butte, montana*


i should note that the bug rolled from her back to her tummy for the first time on our montana trip - this has been a big milestone for her, as she LOVES being on her tummy and really will not hardly spend two seconds on her back anymore if she can help it.

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*loves to be on her tummy*


i should also note that it was right around the time of our montana trip (and just about the time she turned three months old) that she decided that she clued into what we were up to with our whole "bedtime routine" and she was absolutely NOT having any of it! almost exactly on her 3month birthday (and right before our departure for montana...and several nights of staying in a hotel!!) she started to scream and wail as soon as we started to read her a book before bedtime. i will say, aaron and i were pretty nervous about the idea of taking our sweet little lady (who turned into a screaming, wailing banshee between the hours of 7:30 and 9:00pm each night) to stay in a hotel with other folks for severals nights. lucky for us, buggajo opted to take a vacation from her bedtime protesting during our stay in montana - PHEW! looking back on it now, it is probable that all of the bedtime protesting was somewhat tied into a growth spurt AND learning how to roll over, but that didn't make it any less stressful for her parents.

about a week ago, we took a short ferry trip over to poulsbo to attend aaron's cousin's wedding, and we were able to introduce the bug to several of her relatives - she had a wonderful time and it was so much fun to see everyone & be part of such a special day.

sacked out at her first wedding

*sacked out during the ceremony*


and finally, in a couple of weeks we are headed to wisconsin to introduce the bug to many of her ilk relatives. she is VERY excited about this trip, looking forward especially to meeting her great-grandma & grandpa ilk - we keep telling her about this trip (trying to prep her for her first plane trip, etc) and she is just so excited to meet everyone. we are hoping the actual insect bugs in wisconsin in august aren't bigger than her - time will tell!

3. friends: during the month of july, aaron and i celebrated our 3rd wedding anniversary with a fun date night - and buggy got to spent some fun time with her grammy toto. we've also started meeting with a PEPS group once a week, which has been a fun way to meet other parents in our neighborhood with kids right around her age - there is even one family who lives two blocks away! i've also been spending time with some other fun mommy friends who's babies are right around elliot's age, and it is so fun to see them starting to notice each other & take an interest in interacting with one another. once a week, i meet up with a group of moms from our birth group to walk around green lake and that has been great fun, too - we've been seeing these babies since before they were born, so it has been great to watch them all grow & develop. i'm hopeful that we can continue these great new friends as the buggy continues to grow and can take better advantage of her new friends.

 

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*with some of the moms from our birth group, at green lake*


4: fun with dad & uncle kyle: we've been trying to take advantage of any time that aaron has away from his practice to get in some good, quality family time. a couple of weeks ago, we met up with uncle kyle for lunch & a trip to the emp to check out the jim henson exhibit. the exhibit itself was fairly small, but there were several of the ACTUAL muppets on display, which was really neat to see, and we were able to tour the rest of the emp & science fiction museum, so that was pretty neat, too. 

seeing the muppets

*seeing the muppets*


bonus: i had no idea i was married to a star trekky until our stroll through the science fiction museum...huh. 

5. moving: elliot is now proficient at rolling front to back and back to front. she LOVES to hold her head up and look around at her world. she is working on sitting up, and loves nothing more than to be upright & better able to observe and participate in the world around her. she has been *gasp* making motions toward crawling, although at this stage in the game i think it is best labeled "clawing". she grabs, pulls, pushes and scoots to make her way across the room. she will also employ a nice barrell roll if the mood strikes, and she has been known to push her bottom up, and then use it as leverage to scootch forward, inchworm style. 

going for it


needless to say, while she is not yet actually crawling, our girl is certainly mobile and mama & daddy are a little nervous & thinking it may be time to begin the baby-proofing process. in fact, if you are in possession of a 1-2 year old little mover who happens to be highly mobile & interested in getting into things they shouldn't, can we please borrow your little one so that we can observe the trouble spots? i can think of at least a few friends who may fit this bill - babysitting is included, so don't hesitate to respond!!

6. talking: she is talking up a storm. well, talking may be a little too generous - she is cooing and making baby noises up a storm. we haven't heard much in the way of "words" just yet, although i swear we've heard things that sound like "hey" and "hiiii" quite a bit - potential for a first word forming? possibly. we certainly say "hi" to her all the time, so i wouldn't be surprised. and, if you are within two miles of our house starting at around 5 each night, you are likely to hear her other form of "talking" which happens to sound quite a bit like a VERY loud & high pitched prehistoric bird or dinosaur...i'm not kidding, our girl can screech like nobody's business...most of the time she seems to quite enjoy making these noises, and it's fun to see her so pleased with herself. but, as her adoring mama who loves her endlessly and thinks the world of every little thing that she does, i will admit that these are LOUD & slightly painful noises. still, we love her so we love her sounds - and it's pretty fun to see how excited & surprised she is at testing the full range of her voice.

<4 months old


7. books & music: one of the things i had been really excited to introduce to the bug was books. i am a HUGE lover of books of all kinds and have absolutely dreamed of the day when she and i can settle in and read books together, just like my mom and i did when i was young. from an early age, we had incorporated a bedtime book into our bedtime routine, and while we know she is far to young to make much of these books (and honestly, with most of them, there isn't to much to make of them...), she does seem to enjoy the pictures and the rhythm of the words, and the closeness of mama & daddy during storytimes. it's so much fun to watch her engage more & more in storytime (discounting, of course, the month of bedtime protest when she basically screamed from cover to cover...am i not supposed to admit that publicly? oopsie....).  dr suess is a big hit these days, with all those rhymes and wacky, colorful illustrations.

another thing we have noticed that our bug loooooooooooves is music. i have a mix just for her in my itunes, compiled almost entirely of elizabeth mitchell & beatles music (gotta start her out with the really good stuff, right?) and she really loves it. we also have certain songs that we sing to her, aaron and i each have picked a song that is "ours" to sing with her...now, when she hears those tunes  she will begin to coo in recognition - amazing & so much fun!

sneaky smiles


8. sports: in preparation for my return to work, my has dad stepped in to care for the ladybug while i went into the office a couple of times. it has been great for my dad to get a few trial runs in before his role as grandad daycare begins in september, and elliot looooooooooves spending time with her grandad. grandad has some very special, fun talents - he is able to make some seriously entertaining noises that no one else seems to be able to duplicate, he has introduced her to the world of baby sit-ups, and has begun to foster in her a love of all things sports. our buggajo has sports & athletics on both sides of her family, but my dad is by far the biggest sports nut she will ever know, and he cannot wait to get her started down that same path. elliot has also had the good fortune of watching her first mariner's game with her grandad recently - and she LOOOVED it. must be something about the green grass, the summer sunshine and the special time with grandad explaining all of the ins and outs of the game, but i think we have a burgeoning baseball nut on our hands. 

and just yesterday when we saw grandad for a short visit, he asked her if she was ready for her first basketball....um, not quite yet, grandad, but not too much longer.

9. firsts for everyone: last week, seattle experienced the hottest day on record in this city. that means that the bug, mama & daddy ALL lived through our first 103* day - and let me tell ya, in a city with high humidity and no a/c, it was hot!! add to that, our old house made of bricks & original windows (think of an oven) and we were fairly miserable for a few days. it was a full time job just to follow the baking sun, opening & closing windows and moving the fans to try to keep the house as cool as possible, and periodically cool the bug down with a nice sponge bath. it was hot, but somehow we managed to get through it, some more gracefully than others...

buggy siesta

*baby siesta, hottest day in recorded seattle history*


PHEW - so that is 9 highlights to cover approximately two months or 9ish weeks...i promise to be better about updating from now on...or maybe i should say, i promise to do my best! we have our four month pediatrician appointment this week (more shots! although, i've heard some of them are oral, so i'm holding out hope that the trauma level will be lower this time around...), and a few other fun things coming up. 

until next time, bug sends her love to all!

4 months old





Saturday, June 13, 2009

two month appointment (aka OMG shots!!)

hi, sweet bug

we took the bug to her 2 month appointment this week.

the shots experience is just as bad as they say it is, and actually maybe worse if that is possible. it was HORRENDOUS!! to make matters worse, we opted to get the vaccinations in three separate shots because it reduced the amount of aluminum that would be injected into her tiny little body...so, although we feel absolutely right about our decision to expose her to less aluminum, we had to sit through THREE horrible pokes with the giant needle, rather than just one. and her poor little face scrunched up in agony & fear, staring into my eyes with the obvious question, "why are you letting her hurt me like this?" it was HORRRRRIBLE. HORRRRRIBLE. have i mentioned how awful it was? 

a friend of mine advised me not go to the appointment alone and she was oh so right. aaron planned to come to the appointment anyway, but having him there to help with operation: soothe crying girls was an absolute blessing... as soon as the shots were done, he scooped up the bug to soothe her, and the nurse scooped ME up...we were both sobbing. have i mentioned it was completely horrrrrrrible?!?!?!? it was. it was just terrible.

in more fun-ish news, we had a great time talking to our pediatrician prior to the shots (OMG, the SHOTS). she answered some questions i had about how the bug is doing, she told us she is PERFECT (of course she is!) and gave her lots of tummy kisses - generally made me feel really good about our decision to have her as our pediatrician. it was great to chat with her about the issue of vaccinations and have her treat us with respect, conducting a conversation with us about our decision, rather than being dismissive & bullying us into making decisions. some of my friends have had very negative experiences with pediatricians and it was so nice not to have to grapple with that on top of the experience of the shots (OMG, the SHOTS!).

and our buggy is growing big & strong. she is in the 75th percentile for height, 50th percentile for weight. just as we have known all along, our bugga is long and lean...a busy little bee who is almost always in motion, always busy & active & happy. 

every day brings something new and exciting.  she is "talking" more & more these days - always chattering to anyone (or anyTHING) nearby. she has been testing the full range of her voice with lots of coos, grunts, gurgles, etc. new this week have been high pitched shrieks (!) - these seem to give her a thrill & her eyes light up with excitement when she hears her own voice in these different ranges.

she has been grabbing things and bringing them to her mouth for gnawing = her bibs, blankets, frankchuck (her lovey, in the above pic) - anything that comes into range seems to head toward her mouth. she has also been drooling tons & blowing lots of bubbles...mama is a TEENSY bit worried that she is on some freakishly early teething schedule, but that just cannot be, right? (please tell me that just absolutely CANNOT BE). she has also come extremely close to finding her thumb, usually opting to just gnaw on her fist. 

our bug is officially 11 weeks old today - it seems nuts that it has already been 11 weeks since she came into our lives. the time has flown past us in a complete blur! but, as i was telling aaron last night, i can hardly remember a time before she was part of our lives - and i am absolutely the happiest i have ever been now that i am her mama.

happy 11 weeks, sweet lady bug!


11 weeks


Tuesday, June 9, 2009

10 and a half weeks later



ever since our little bugga came into our lives, i've been meaning to start this blog to document & share her life with friends and family. and here i am actually doing it...10 and a half weeks later. 

my oh my, how the time has flown! and our little bug has been growing and changing like crazy. she's very strong, and can hold up her head and do baby push ups very well. she rolls from her front to her back and has been doing this task since she was 8 weeks old. she is ALMOST able to roll from back to front, and i will often find her sleeping on her side in the mornings - just a little kick & roll more and our girl will be on her tummy! she has also proven herself to be a swaddle ninja, and despite my varied attempts to keep her in, she has made short work of each & every swaddle technique thrown her way - so for about the last week or so, we have given up swaddling. she sleeps a LITTLE bit less than before, but it hasn't been too terrible a transition and that is a relief!

she can now see across the room and has even spotted her own reflection from across our living room, smiling & hamming it up for "that cute baby" who seems to follow her wherever she goes. speaking of that cute baby in the mirror, she just loooooooves to flirt with her reflection - her eyebrows raise, her eyes get big and she cracks the adorable crooked smile that makes our hearts melt. she also loves to look at the pictures & videos we have taken of her - all of which proves her utter genius, in the humble opinion of her adoring mama. she is a very happy, agreeable baby almost* all of the time (*and really, isn't that about the best you can be when you are less than three months old?!?). she loves to look around and explore her world - and she absolutely LOVES it when our doggies come up to sniff her & give her puppy kisses.

last weekend, daddy & mama had their first official post baby "date" - we went to a movie & left the little bug with her grammy toto for the first time. sadly, we picked a not-so-great movie which cost WAY too much (am i just getting old, or does $20 seem RIDICULOUS for two adults to see a movie, especially since i can get it from netflix in a few months?!?). but we had a great time together and it felt very daring to be out & about without our little one. grammy reported back that bugga was very good MOST of the time & slept MOST of the time, which seems pretty good for the first time away (and, if i'm being perfectly honest here, i'm not sure that her mama faired quite as well). plus, grammy has a neato paddington bear mobile - and our bug loves nothing more than a good mobile. the one above our changing table has saved us from the OMG CAN'T YOU WARM THAT BOTTLE ANY FASTER crying more times than i can count.

we have our two month pediatrician appointment later this week - this is the BIG, SCARY appointment that all new moms dread - the one with the first shots. at the very least, i'm looking forward to hearing more about how she is progressing in terms of weight/length and development - WE think she is insanely long & a prodigy in all possible ways, but it will be interesting to hear what the pedi has to say. yes, i'm trying my best to focus on the positives - you may label me an ostrich if you choose. 

we have been enjoying unseasonably lovely weather in seattle for the past few weeks - late may & early june are almost always bitter, rainy times of year here. it has been sunny & in the 70s and 80s for the last few weeks, and bugga and i have been trying to make the very most of the nice days. today, after her nap, i think we will venture to the grocery store, then head out for a nice walk in the sunshine. laundry & dishes can wait until the sun goes down tonight.


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